Answers From Jennifer
There are 34 volumes of questions and answers here!
Here can be found the anonymous texts of actual letters written to me, and my answers in return. The letters are presented as a rather loose, ongoing continuous dialogue between a hypothetical questioner, and myself. Most every standard question about transsexuality is answered in here.
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At the bottom are Special Guest Letters and Essays by contributors other than Jennifer, assisting the efforts of this site.
The
Dangerous Predator Of Transsexuals
I
Get Utterly Snarky With A Conflicted Religious Nutter
Perhaps
My Most Difficult Letter, Ever.
A
College Student Asks Religious Questions
Safe
Sex For Transsexuals
On
the hiring of Transsexual employees, in small business, in small places
A
guy trapped in the body of a man?
A
lesbian with a girlfriend who has a penis...what IS the proper label?
Hopeful
Possibilities for the Genders Inbetween!
What
are the ideal female proportions?
I've
got no effect after a year and a half on estrogen!
Transsexual
or Fetishist; what am I?
I'm
in a stuck place. Any advice on how to get started?
Was
it difficult finding a job after your surgery?
Do
people ever harass you nowadays, other than online?
Do
you ever wonder what life would be like if you were a man?
Help
for the spouse/lover of the newly-awakened transsexual?
Letters
Volume Thirty-One
A
complaint on the issue of transsexual disclosure in dating
Why
would a MTF transsexual who likes women want to have surgery?
Can
a transsexual claim to think and be what they claim to be?
Any
general advice on telling my parents?
Do
hormones change your sexual preferences?
What
the heck are she-males and she-male porn all about?
Letters
Volume Thirty
How
To Deal With Our Lost Childhoods
Why
can't FTM and MTF transsexuals just trade their body parts?
How
do I conquer my fears?
The
proper path of Transition
Growing
breasts even if one is not transsexual
The
risks of appearing feminine in a school environment
I
wish I was strong like you
Can
someone be transsexual who does NOT want surgery?
Letters
Volume Twenty-Nine
Sore
Tee-Tees !
Why
do some people keep the label of being 'transsexuals' ?
Guilt
and Purging
The
Last Word On Autogynephilia
Severe
Post-Transition Depression
How
To Deal With Our Lost Childhoods
Hormones
made me not care about dressing up, am I still a TS?
Is
it possible to be a transsexual and STILL have a fetish for clothing?
Definitions,
Definitions!
My
Femininity is Questioned
For
the potential boyfriend of a TS, just how good is the surgery, anyway?
I
am 19 and I am scared about many things
Hormones
made me not care about dressing up, am I still a TS?
How
to grasp transsexuals and masturbation: a hands-on approach
Confused
about what exactly to 'be' in the world
Can
a man stay male and have sex-change surgery?
A
woman asks about her Female-To-Male boyfriend
Concerns
about the hands and feet
The
April 1st parody inspires reflection on how insults can be defused
A
general overview of the COGIATI results is presented
All
about 'Two-Spirits' and Transsexuality
When
transsexuality is a legitimate disability
Is
the Catholic Church acting nicer towards the genderqueer?
Issues
for the wife of the MTF transsexual explored
Can
progesterone affect emotions?
Transsexual
bigotry against the 'transgendered' explained
I
am 18, transsexual, and mom will not listen!
Options
for the hopelessly unpassable transsexual
The
basic overview of going through transition and surgery.
The
second puberty of hormone replacement can't be a real puberty..can it?
Carefully
judge your doctors!
The
really succinct answer to the transsexual question...
The
methodology of 'Tucking'....once again.
A
letter from the 'Everytrannie', of age 20 -the definitive example of
the Big Question
A
bright 17 year old asks the tough questions!
How
big should my penis be for penile inversion?
How
can I stop being transsexual to protect my boys?
Three
questions about fat, breast size, and flesh for surgery
The
very saddest poor bastard writes in...a cautionary letter you should read.
The
most common complaint about the COGIATI addressed
What
about transsexuals that seemingly change sexual orientation after transition?
What
about those who claim they are 'totally heterosexual'?
Why
do they make it so darn difficult to be transsexual or to be gay?
When
should I transition?
Dispelling
some myths about transsexuals
The
success rate for transition, and the biases out there
How
are you supposed to know if you are transsexual and not just messed up?
The
greatest secret of passing, revealed yet again...
The
Big Golden Story of How Hormones Work and the Fuss Thereto
The
issues of children dealing with transgendered relatives
An
example of the most important part of 'Passing' in action
The
universal 14 year old who needs help...my most difficult letter to answer
All
about 'Tucking'...hiding the genitals for the pre surgical folk
Winner
of my personal 1999 "Weirdest Letter Award": Topless TG's
and the Law
I
am asked to define 'Heterosexual' in context to all of this
Is
Transsexuality a form of escapism?
Cheating
on the COGIATI test?
Surgery
as 'mutilation'?
well
i know this person and i think she or he is one how will i be able
to tell
Some
questions about Jennifer, and the nature of 'love' itself.
Was
it worth it?
Did
I experience a 'female' orgasm?
How
can I be sure I am a transsexual?
What
are the risks of 'tucking' the genitals to hide them?
Why
don't you advise storing sperm prior to surgery more?
How
do you cope with the conflicts between religion and transsexuality?
Feeling
'Outed' when I just want to fit in...
Feeling
suppressed by keeping my transsexuality hidden
Worrying
about being 'Spotted'
Why
do I feel that being transsexual is evil?
How
to define transsexuality in animals
I
am 21 and transsexual, I have many questions...
Physically
I 'Pass', but yet I often I feel I do not, Help!
I
told my parents and now I am in danger, help me Jennifer!
All
about 'herbal estrogens'
I
am stuck between wanting to love a woman, and being a woman?!?
Why
don't I have a choice in being transsexual?
How
accurate is the COGIATI?
I
need a crash course in passing!
What
transgenderists are all about.
What
about urination after surgery..is it a problem?
Counceling
INSTEAD of transition...what happens then?
How
do I deal with my grandfather about being transsexual?
I
am a family man, yet I have gender issues. What should I do?
I
know my online friend's TS secret, how do I tell them?
My
parents are very religious and I am afraid of them finding out!
What
is up with this COGIATI thing, anyway?
I
am 15 and transsexual. What do I do?
Can
I live as a Transgenderist?
What
happens to muscles under estrogen?
How
do you tell someone you are a transsexual?
What
is the danger of taking hormones?
Define
'Shemales' to me?
Will
my relationships survive my transsexuality?
I
am 17, on black market hormones, and worried!
How
can I cope with being TS?
My
friend is a loser. How can I help?
Why
is transgender stuff almost always about the Male-To-Female side?
How
can I help my reclusive transsexual friend?
I
may be an atypical transsexual and I don't know what to think
Looking
for a safer place to live!
Why
don't they remove the prostate in reassignment surgery?
Three
little questions..perhaps the most important three!
How
can I remove facial hair without getting a pitted face?
The
failure of reproduction as the definition of a woman
How
can I "accidentally" lose my penis so my parents won't be mad?
I
am taking non-prescription hormones JUST LIKE YOU SAID! (HUH???)
Living
as a woman without hormones or surgery
What
are the differences between TS, TV, and TG?
What is the difference between a Transsexual, and a Transvestite?
I
prefer transsexuals - why don't they prefer me?
I
want a baby, and I am jealous of the power of birth!
'Shemales'
and the Transsexual
What
happened after your transition story? Any advice on Coming Out?
How
do I get my breasts to grow?
What
is the incidence of children who become Dysphoric at age 6-9?
How
many young boys get surgery?
I
dare not seek help, I have little choice in the matter!
I
am a bit of a 'Tom Boy'. Can I still go through transition?
I
am afraid I will lose my friends if I tell them I'm transsexual!
I
went on hormones...and I feel better!
Do
you really feel the affects of the hormones?
Reassignment
at age 60?
What
other options exist than full transition?
How
can you identify as female if you are attracted to women?
Too
late for hormones to work?
Help
me NOT be a FTM transsexual anymore!
Stuck
in Utah, COGIATI accuracy, masturbation fantasies, and what to do?
Reversing
hormone effects?
Suicide
is on my mind?
The
COGIATI for Sex Preference???
How
can I tell my mother I am TS and not hurt her?
If
I have surgery, am I stealing grandchildren from my mother?
What
about the options not involving complete transition?
I
am a woman trapped inside and DEATH IS THE ONLY WAY OUT
I
had lumps in my breasts at age 14!
What
about Post-Op orgasms?
What's
up with the research into the cause of transsexuality?
I
am scared to do anything. What should I do?
I
am only 12, I am in a GID program, HELP!
What
are your feelings on transsexuality and spirituality?
Could
DES have made me transsexual?
Late
onset transsexualism
Validity
of transsexual advantages ?
Emotional
fluxing under hormone therapy
Transsexuals
passing on their genes ?
Avoiding
transition for the sake of others ?
Transsexuals
as religious abominations ?
Being
torn apart emotionally !
How
to assert yourself to face things
Is
it normal for a MTF to want sex with a man ?
Are
we still transsexuals after surgery ?
Savoring
transition even when it is difficult
The
curious gift of youth we gain
Am
I a FTM gay man?
Am
I a transsexual because of THESE feelings?
I
tested as a COGIATI androgyne, what does this mean?
Is
a doctor REALLY necessary for getting estrogens?
The
myths of 'giving' and 'receiving': Gay 101
Early
gay experiences?
Gay
or straight? You make the call!
The
Last Word On The COGIATI
My
statement to those who have a problem with the test.
'SPECIAL
LETTERS'
samplings
from the less happy side of my mailbox
Special Guest Correspondences:
These
are letters, and their responses,
sent
to me by supporters of this site.
I
am proud to include them because of their useful
and
worthy content.
Scholar
Ina Shook replies to a Fancier of Transsexuals.
A
friend tells us a tale of uplifting acceptance!
Jenny
Browne tells of A Tale of Coming Out, and the benefits therein.
A
first hand account of learning via hormone experimentation.
Jenny
Browne's First experience with a gender group meeting.
Coming
out a little too late!
Special Guest Essays:
